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 Some time ago, I did a blog post about rewards. I mentioned that certain behaviors elicit specific responses and that Mistresses enjoy rewarding a submissive, whether it be a special time together or by allowing him release from his chastity training. What I glossed over in that post is the flip side of the coin … that sometimes Mistresses enjoy punishing their submissives and there are those out there who seek that punishment.
Punishment can come in a variety of phases … and can be used for specific purposes. There are those who use punishment as a tool for keeping their submissive under control … a way of negative reinforcement which constantly reminds the submissive of who the Alpha is. Some use punishment as a tease … laughing as they playfully spank or tweak a nipple. Each serves it’s need … but which is used on whom and why would someone want one vs the other is a rather interesting debate.
Some might question how you punish the unpunishable, such as masochists. Does one simply refrain from punishing someone who so obviously enjoys the feeling of a paddle thwacking against the tender flesh of their ass? How would you punish someone who revels in the intensity of sensation, no matter how soft or harsh? What are the differences? How do you know what to do?
It is the responsibility of the Mistress to know what each person needs. To know whether a masochist needs to be denied punishment, for the sheer pleasure of it or if they require an intense, muscle numbing session which will leave them dripping with sweat (as well as a few other places!). Knowing where to touch, when to touch and how delicately to do so is something I have practiced … perfected … and can teach you to learn about your own body.
Sweet and Sensual or Cruel and Vicious, I can give you what you need … I am the Softer Side of Mean
For an erotic phone session with Empress Ryan, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute,. with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
http://ratemycall.com
Podcast: Download
 So I’ve made an observation of late. As my birthday approaches (March 22 darlings … what did you get me?) and I can now officially call myself a MILF in addition to being a Mistress (not to be confused with the MILF Mistress) I find that some of my callers seem to be younger and less sure of themselves. Some are first time callers to me and others are just first time phone sex callers. I love being the first Mistress they speak with … being that woman who guides them into their perversion with a gentle, yet firm hand. Some require more assistance than others … they know what they want but don’t know how to vocalize it. So, for those of you looking to take that plunge for the first time … (or even those of you who’ve been around the block a few times and just need a little refresher) I thought I could provide you with a little bit of a Primer Guide … You know, something to nudge you in the right direction so you get the very best possible experience while on the phone with the Mistress you decide to do a call with.
The first topic I thought we’d begin with is guided masturbation. For most guys, this is pretty self explanatory at it’s face. You’re masturbating and someone is telling you “how” to do it, right? This is like the missionary position in sex … Everyone knows how to do it but not everyone knows the subtle differences that stem from it. For instance, you start off wanting a guided masturbation call and perhaps the Mistress teases you a little more … let’s you jack off using different strokes, speeds and techniques but when the big moment arrives, she stops you. Perhaps she does this a few times, taking you to the “edge” and then pulling back without letting you cum? Tease and denial is a subtle game that spices up just a straight guided masturbation call for both parties. And there are even variations to these games as well!
Sweet and Sensual or Cruel and Vicious, I can give you what you need … I am the Softer Side of Mean
For an erotic phone session with Empress Ryan, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute,. with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
http://ratemycall.com
 You’ve all done it, I know you have. You’re at the club, hanging out with the guys and having a few drinks after work when your eyes start to wander. Bodies all pressed together, with the pulsing throb of music in the background, it’s normal to watch people isn’t it? First you check out a few chicks … after all, who doesn’t appreciate a beautiful woman, dressed up to show off her smoking hot body even with her boyfriend right behind her? You watch the way her body wraps itself around his … the way her fingers lace together on his hips as he grinds against her. You catch yourself fidgeting in your seat as you watch them practically fucking on the dance floor. Her eyes catch yours and she smiles … putting a little extra bump in her grind.
Her body is magnificent in a shiny little pink dress that barely hugs her chest and tucks in against her waspish waist. Long legs twine themselves around his jean covered ones as they dance … they look almost perfect together. You can see the shimmer on her arms as she runs her fingers down his powerful, well muscled arms. The way his chest expands when he inhales the perfume she’s wearing causes your heart to flutter in your chest and you can’t help but admire the way he moves every time those strong hips of his thrust … and that’s when you realize your eyes are glued to him and you’ve forgotten about the woman he’s riding up against. Your cock hardens in your pants as you watch him and you lick your lips, thinking about what it would be like to feel him rubbing up against you that way. The pounding beat of bass in the background only provides a rhythm that you can imagine setting as you taste the sweaty muscles at the side of his neck as he drills you against the wall while she watches you lose your faggot cherry. Shock registers as your mind draws up the image of you screaming against his neck as he penetrates you. You’re STRAIGHT, for fuck’s sake … guys don’t think about things like that! Real men don’t wonder what it would be like to be the bisexual bitch to a real stud! You try to focus on the woman again … to imagine what it would be like to push HER up against the wall and fucking her mindlessly but all your brain will show you are the images of his cock pushing between your lips as she holds your head down between his thighs. You tremble as you sit there with your friends, trying to play off being a real guy … pretending to be turned on by every chick who walks past. Another beer and you find the courage to turn around … to watch them as they dance together again, this time staring right at you as his hands clench her hips and he pulls her backwards … over and over again.
When they leave the dancefloor, walking right past you and he brushes his hard cock against your thigh … you can’t help it … you make your excuses to your friends and you follow …
I’ll give you what you need … the Softer side of Mean
For an erotic phone session with Enchantrix Ryan, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute,. with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
http://ratemycall.com
 What is a woman? What makes her into the being you see before you whenever you happen to glance our way? Is it simply a case of genetics … one chromosome vs another in the makeup of our being, or do you think there is something more to it? Some mystical essence that defines our femininity? And what is it about some women that makes them dominant? What intangible makes a woman into the Alpha Female?
Taking it one step further, what about some women causes them to become ultra sensual whereas others become more harsh? If one does take the extreme, is it possible to flip back and forth between the two? To be both sides of the coin?
Of course it is! Women are a study in duality … compassionate and indifferent at the same time … light and dark wrapped inside the same physical presence. A woman who nurtures is the same woman who will cut you with her tongue, humiliating you for failing to live up to the simplest of tasks. A Mistress who would cradle you in her arms is the same who will laugh with cruel delight as you strain to obey her command and ruin your orgasm. It’s what draws a man to her … the need to be punished and rewarded in the same place.
Some might argue that punishment isn’t their “thing” … other would claim they do as they are told without the need for reward (good boys always earn rewards … like free adult audios). The truth of the matter is that a woman represents both extremes, whether she be soft or cruel … sweet or nasty. Elegant and edgy … that’s what you need from a woman like myself.
Lucky for you … I know what you need.
The Softer Side of Mean
For an erotic phone session with Mistress Ryan, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute,. with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
http://ratemycall.com
Podcast: Download
 I am not, by my nature, a patient woman. One might even say I’m somewhat impatient about certain things because I believe in instant gratification. Most of the time, this doesn’t work in my favor and I find myself paying $300 more for a ticket than the person sitting next to me on the plane (havoc is constantly telling me to shop around … I guess I’m just no good at bargain hunting). I have been known to go shopping and come back with bags full of what could have been on sale tomorrow, had I waited … but again, I’m not good at waiting around. I know that most of you are like me, when it comes to certain things. You see what you want and you go for it … regardless of what it may be. Whether it be golf clubs or phone sex, you don’t want to have to wait in line … and now, at least as far as your phones are concerned … you don’t have to wait any more.
Click on my picture, just there on the right and you’ll be taken to my cock control page that you can now satisfy that urge to talk to me, almost instantaneously. It’s called “Click to Call” and here’s how it works. Instead of calling me through the dispatcher (which is still an option for those of you who prefer a human’s touch), you can click a link, enter all your information yourself, bypass the dispatcher entirely and be connected directly to me … without the hassle of waiting for a middle-woman.
How Our Click To Call Billing Process Works
If you select Unlimited, your card will be authorized for a 30 minute call. However, you will only be charged for the exact time you spent on the phone. The Unlimited option is offered so that you do not need to interrupt your call if you decide to purchase more time. This will be done for you, with no interruption in your call.
If you select a timed call, you will only be billed for the time spent on the phone. For instance, if you select a 20 minute call, but only talk for 10 minutes, you will only be billed for 10 minutes.
Typically, it takes 2 to 3 business days for the exact amount of your call to settle on your billing statement. Before the settlement, the amount reflected on your billing statement is an authorization, and does not necessarily reflect the final amount of your call. For questions about billing, or other customer service needs, feel free to call us at 800-356-6169 .
So test it out … see how it feels to be control … at least for a little while …
For an erotic phone session with Goddess Ryan, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute,. with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
http://ratemycall.com
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Some time ago, I did a blog post about rewards. I mentioned that certain behaviors elicit specific responses and that Mistresses enjoy rewarding a submissive, whether it be a special time together or by allowing him release from his chastity training. What I glossed over in that post is the flip side of the coin … that sometimes Mistresses enjoy punishing their submissives and there are those out there who seek that punishment.
