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What kind of a man are you?

It’s a valid question, I think … and quite simple to answer if you put your mind to it. Are you the big, burly Alpha Male who rules with an iron fist or the soft spoken, sissified wimp who cowers to his Alpha Female at every opportunity?  Both men have their place … and their uses in the world.  Even a Mistress such as myself can find pleasure in being with an Alpha Male … the mental Olympics that 2 Alphas can put each other through is almost as good as attaining the head-space of a good scene.  However, I’m sure you’re asking yourself what on earth would bring this to mind.  Why would I be asking now what kind of  a man you are?

Today, I went to see “The Wolfman” starring Benicio del Toro and Emily Blunt.  The movie itself is ultimately forgettable, with jerky storyline jumps and under-developed characters, but it does have a few moments which reach out and scare the death out of you in pure shock value.  Unfortunately, as much as it pains me to say this, I fear Sir Anthony Hopkins has passed his prime and has become much like an old, broken down shell of his former self.  His screen presence does nothing for any of the scenes he’s presented in and the half-hearted delivery of his lines is awkward at best.  It was his casting in the movie which caused me to ponder the types of men in the world … and to ask where you fall in the schematic.  I’ve decided, after much thinking, there are 4 types of men:

  1. The Alpha Male – Strong, self-assured and bold, this is the kind of man who expects obedience from everyone around him.  Business or personal don’t factor into how he responds or reacts to the people in his life, it’s very cut and dry.  In terms of kink, men who fall into this category are sometimes sexual exhibitionists and love the idea of someone watching them stroke on cam.
  2. The Once Powerful Male – An aging version of the Alpha Male, he still maintains his power but has relinquished some of the status afforded a man who has “Succeeded”.  His once fierce personality is tempered by the wisdom of age but he’s still got the bite of a lion when provoked.
  3. The Pleaser  – He wants to make everyone around him happy.  He’ll do whatever is necessary in order to make sure those around him are impressed by his talents and praise him for them.  Cuckolds generally fall into this category, knowing their own inability to perform must be compensated for in some way.
  4. The Wimp – This is the lowest man on the totem pole.  A true slave to those above him, his existence is validated through the approval of his Mistress.  He is forgettable and is terrified to realize it, but will readily do whatever he is instructed in order to “prove” himself.

So which are you?  Where do you fall in the grand layout of men and women?  I’d be interested to find out where everyone considers themselves.

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6 comments to What kind of a man are you?

  • vita obscura

    Dear Mistress Ryan,

    i would say that i fall in the category of pleasers, as You describe them, although because i have also run a big organization for several years i also feel like an old alpha male. Being a cuckold had excited me secretly for years (actually my first wife divorced me when she got bored of cuckolding me and grabbed the next male available to marry) but was always afraid to accept because of the social stigma involved in this.

    i will be glad to share more info with You if this is what You want
    respectfully
    male sub vita obscura

  • Mistress Ryan

    I think it takes a brave man to admit his desires so openly. Cuckolds are a special breed of man and it takes a woman who truly understands the mentality behind this lifestyle to truly put a man in his place.
    Perhaps we could discuss this more indepth at some point?

  • W

    A Pleaser is what I hope I am. How can I be sure? LOL, Something to consider.

  • tim

    Hi Mistress Ryan, I fit into The Wimp category. Alot of it stems from the fact that I have a female foot fetish and below 4 inch dick when erect.

  • tiny ty

    Dear Mistress Ryan, This is a great post. I think I fall into the category of the Wimp. Here are some reasons why. I feel that women are superior to men. I am also only 5ft 4 inches tall and have a very tiny dick which is barely above 3 inches erect. That leaves me to think I am not a real man. Do you think men in the wimp category end up being slaves to the superior females and the alpha males? I also love the being humiliated about by the superior females.

  • Ted

    Hi Mistress Ryan,Great post.
    I am an alpha male.

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