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Male Chastity: Is it right for you

Mistress Ryan — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 19:00:22 +0000

I want to lock you up and throw away the key. How does that sound? You see, I think men are just better when they aren’t worrying about their cocks. From the time you hit puberty (if not before) your dick is the sole focus of your life.

With chastity training, you realize that there is more to life than just stroking your cock.

I have a friend of mine who has been in chastity for about three months now.

Previously, he’d been so intent on masturbating and getting laid that he never stopped to think if he deserved it or not. And with a single click of a lock, his entire world came into focus. Of course, he is occasionally let out and allowed to have an orgasm but that is few and far between. Eventually he may not be able to orgasm at all.

I quizzed him about whether he enjoyed being chaste and he told me he loved it.

As a submissive man, his desire was to serve but he was always getting distracted by his own needs. Now he can serve without feeling the need to masturbate constantly. He loves to do whatever his Mistress asks and his favorite honor is to lick her pussy. It sounds like he has a great life.

But chastity isn’t for everyone.

As much as I would like to lock you all up and tease and torment you forever, that won’t be the case. It comes down to what you truly desire and your capabilities. Although I have to say, the sight of a man in a chastity belt gets me hot.

There’s something so vulnerable and permanent about it. Every time I see it, I can’t help but have a little fun with myself. And if you were my chaste slave, you would be the one pleasing me. Now how does that sound?

Free Phone Sex Giveaway

Mistress Ryan — Tue, 06 Dec 2011 20:49:56 +0000

Are you good at writing scripts and podcast recordings? Do you want to win free phone sex?

What’s at stake?

Mistress Ryan of http://femdomcalls.com is giving away FIVE Free phone sex sessions.

How to Win:

Submit an email to ryan@enchantrixempire.com with a script that will be recorded for a podcast. The first 5 people to submit a recording will win 10 minutes free with Mistress Ryan.

What am I giving away?

The script should be between 10 and 15 minutes long

The topics can be anything but some suggestions would be

Male Chastity
Female Domination
Body Worship
Tease and Denial
Cuckolding

How do I know I’ve won?

You will receive email confirmation of your winning as a reply to your submission no later than 12:00 PM on 12/8/2011. Entries must be received no later than 11:59pm EST on 12/7/2011.

Sensual Humiliation

Mistress Ryan — Tue, 15 Nov 2011 23:00:46 +0000

I’ve been a bit rough on you this week, haven’t I? Between talk of keeping you as my captive slave and having you locked in chastity, I’ve come off as the mistress of mean, haven’t I?

That’s why you and I need a bit of a sensual downtime, don’t you think? Perhaps an erotic body worship session? I do enjoy how attentive you are to my pussy.

But I don’t want to let go of my mean streak quite yet. So how about a little erotic humiliation?

Let me explain how this works. I’m not going to call you a loser and chastise your every action today. No that’s too boring. Instead, I want to delve deeper and discover all what really makes you a lesser human being than me. You see, as much as everyone wants to think that people are created equal, you and I know that isn’t true.

There are some people that are better than others. That’s just the way it is.

Just imagine you standing before me for the first time? What would you do? Would you stand confident and strong, challenging my every move? Or would you realize that to be in front of me is a reward within itself and you should be humble and gracious?

From that first moment, I am your Humiliatrix and you are my sub.

You are naturally submissive to me because you have no choice. This is why you were created. To serve and pleasure me. It can be humiliating to realize this at first but once you embrace it you will discover a whole new way of looking at pleasure. It’s not just about how many times you come in a day. No doubt, in the past, that has made you feel shallow.

No you will discover that your pleasure comes from being with me. And that very act makes you a lowly sub.

So tell me, what would you do to make me happy and satiated today?

Keyholding: Your Mistress has a chastity slave

Mistress Ryan — Thu, 27 Oct 2011 10:00:50 +0000

I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned this before, but your Mistress has a male chastity slave. He’s not one of those boys who puts himself in his own chastity device and can take himself out at any time. We tried that once and he failed, miserably. I caught him removing his device to sneak a rub and had to change our relationship. From that point forward, I actually had him sign a long-term chastity contract with me and give me the key to the lock on his device.

In true keyholding Femdom fashion, I keep his key on a chain around my wrist. When I go out and see people looking at my “bracelet,” I can’t help but smile because I know what it means, and they do not. It gives me an even bigger smile when I think of how much humiliation my chaste boy would feel if I were to explain what it was exactly to someone who asked!

You may think that male chastity phone sex would be boring because nobody cums, but you’d be wrong. (You’d also be wrong if you thought no one got sexual pleasure out of it because I get incredibly aroused at wielding this kind of power over a man’s cock.) Our sessions are actually a lot of fun because it means I get to pull out all the stops for my tease and denial games.

I sometimes have to hold back with my non-chaste slaves to keep them from going over the edge too soon. But with my poor boy locked in chastity hell, I don’t have to. It’s not like he can masturbate and cum, anyway!

Captive to a Strict Mistress

Mistress Ryan — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 10:00:10 +0000

Have you ever wondered what it’d be like to be kept in captivity? It’s almost like being kept in chastity, really, only it’s to a much greater extent. Instead of my just limiting how and when you touch your cock, I’d be controlling all your movements. If you’re stuck in a cage, you can’t exactly go out and get McDonald’s whenever you want, can you?

Captivity hell is, in fact, the best description of what being locked up as a slave for me is like. At first, it may seem like fun, but after awhile, it gets a little…cramped. If you think being in chastity means that you’re subject to my every whim, you’ve obviously never been locked in a cage before.

I’ll let you out sometimes. It just may not happen very often. Call me a mean Mistress if you want, but this is another one of those cases of “Be careful what you wish for, etc., etc.” You wanted to be locked up, my dear. And locked up is exactly what you’ll be.

If I don’t want to let you out so that you can bathe, you’ll just have to resign yourself to being stinky until I choose to loose you. On the other hand, I suppose I could always toss a bucket of soapy water on you and hose you down, especially if I keep you locked up in my basement. A Femdom Mistress really can’t have too many slaves in the basement dungeon, can she?

Of course, the rewards of being a male captivity slave are great if you can handle it. You’ll get to spend far more time with your strict Mistress, for example, than you would otherwise. At some point, you may eventually think it’s too much time. You’ll be a captive audience, after all!

Male Chastity Key Holder Services

Mistress Ryan — Fri, 23 Sep 2011 10:00:40 +0000

Let’s say you’ve made the decision to lock up your cock and send me the key. What happens next?

Well of course you have to actually send me the key.

This is the moment where things get real. You have a choice to make: Do you want to send me the key and place me in complete control of your manhood or not?

Most people get up to this point in the cock control game and then chicken out. It’s one thing to participate in a hot tease and denial session. It’s completely another to lock yourself up and give the key.

But this is what male chastity is all about.

Submission is a thread that runs throughout your entire body. You know as well as I do that to submit to another person gives you that feeling of wholeness.

Keyholding just amplifies this feeling and takes it to the next step.

Do you truly believe I have control of your cock?

If I own your cock that means I get to do what I want with it.

Spank it or play with it or even lock it up. See, from the moment that key is sent, our bond becomes deeper. You are committing yourself fully to me and completely trusting me. That is the ‘key’ so to speak of an excellent FemDom Mistress/sub relationship.

I’ve had subs tell me that when they give me the key, it’s like a sigh of relief. They are in a place of true chastity submission.

Of course, one of the major trepidations that come with keyholding is the worry about what is going to happen next. Are you never going to be able to cum? What exactly am I going to do with you?

It’s not as if I will get your key and then toss your fantasies out the window. No, the Mistress/sub relationship is not only built on commitment but on trust as well.

So tell me, would you send me your key?

I’m very interested in your answer….

Mistress ruins your orgasm

Mistress Ryan — Mon, 05 Sep 2011 17:07:35 +0000

It’s been a while, hasn’t it? Most of you will notice that I’ve changed my schedule to have even MORE availability for your phone sex calls. You can now reach me most week days, between 11am and 12am EST. I’ve had a wonderful time re-acquainting myself with some of my slaves that I haven’t had a chance to chat with over the past year as well as meeting some new slaves to serve me obediently. Speaking of obedience … I’ve had the chance to really think about our sessions and I’ve decided something …

You get off way too easy with me.

I know we have guided masturbation sessions that can seem a little tough sometimes, but I do let you cum, don’t I? Even during our tease and denial games, you eventually get to shoot your load. My keyholding sessions on the other hand, are a bit more intense. They almost never end with an orgasm, but at least you know that going into it, yes? But, the point is that you can still recall the memories of orgasming to get you through the tough times. In fact, that’s what helps you last for days.

I don’t think that’s quite fair so I’m changing the rules.

Today isn’t going to be like any other day. Today, you are going to stroke your cock for me and I’m going to tease you unmercifully. Except for one thing: I’m going to ruin your orgasm.
Yes, you heard me.

Enough of this tease and delay which helps you get a bigger and better orgasm.

Today I want you to fully understand what it’s like to have your orgasm just slip away.

Just stroke your cock for me please. I love hearing you start to pant as you get more and more excited. A deep moan comes from your throat as you are jacking off, desperate to get to that orgasm. Too bad it’s not going to happen.

If I was there, I’d be right next to you, pressing my naked breasts against your back as I watched you stroke. In fact, I might reach over and help you out. There really is nothing like the feel of a cock in your hand. Up and down I’d stroke, every so often reaching down and giving your balls a squeeze.

I would move in front of you and begin to stroke a little faster. If you are lucky, I might even use a vibrator just on the tip. Anything to help you get to that magic moment.

You are caught up in the moment, delirious from the pleasure and ready to cum. And just as you do, I put my thumb over the head of your cock and then squeeze your balls so tight you cry out from the pain.

Your orgasm flutters away from you and dies, leaving you dejected.

Ooh, I like that look of abject disappointment on your face.

I will have to make sure it’s there more often.

Male Orgasm Denial

Mistress Ryan — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 18:55:44 +0000

I learned long ago that the best way to control a man is through his dick. Did you know that I learned to be the perfect little cock tease early?

This is how I stumbled upon male chastity, actually. It was the logical progression, taking orgasm denial to its fullest extreme. I know that you would just love to commit yourself to a lifetime commitment to me, wouldn’t you, my pet?

The perfect way for you to worship your femdom Mistress is to agree to total chastity submission.

You know this means that I will have complete control of you for the length of time that *I* designate for you to be kept in chastity. I think that as a male submissive, the longer you are kept in chastity, the more docile and respectful that you will become. And a respectful, docile submissive man is what all Mistresses strive for.

After no time, you will be convinced that you are in chastity hell. You will have long forgotten that you initially begged your Mistress to be locked in chastity. You wanted to learn the true meaning of submission, only having your dick freed at the will of your femdom chastity mistress.

Sometimes, I’ll tease it. Sometimes, I’ll torture it. But you won’t be allowed to cum.

In chastity hell, you will have to find other, more creative ways to please your femdom chastity mistress. Your dick will be completely useless to me, more so than it already is.

Are you ready to submit yourself to chastity submission? You will be required to come to me, begging me to be locked in chastity and to be KEPT in chastity. You know that this is the only way for you to truly submit yourself to what you are about to become.

You will be kept in chastity for extended periods of time. You will learn to focus on your work and on pleasing your Mistress in every other way possible. Perhaps you will become particularly skilled at oral worship of my pussy and ass? Male chastity will give you plenty of time to realize that you MUST obey if you ever want to be allowed the pleasure that you desire in the end.

Tease and Denial Chastity

Mistress Ryan — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 18:20:26 +0000

My recent posts on keyholding just got me thinking about how much I love a good tease and denial session. Can you imagine how torturous that would feel, having to stroke your cock after it being locked up for so long?

We’d start with a week.

I would lock you up and take the key and you would be made to suffer. That’s when the real cock teasing begins. Its funny how easily aroused you can get when your cock is all locked up, isn’t it?

All it will take is a cute photo or a seductive whisper in your ear and you will have lost it! Of course, you don’t even need that. Because the very act of male chastity turns you on, doesn’t it? The idea that I control your cock is almost too much for you.

At the end of the week, I would release your cock from your cage.

Now I’m going to make you stroke it. No doubt you have feared this. I mean the level of intensity you are feeling is crazy already. To then stroke your cock might make you lose all of your self control. And we wouldn’t want that, would we?

Your first, tentative stroke unleashes a groan as you feel pleasure pulsing throughout your body.

Who knows how long I’m going to make you do this.

I have to admit it turns me on seeing you like this. You are so completely helpless and desperate. You know that chastity training is necessary for you but at the same time your base instincts are taking over. That’s why you need lots and lots of training.

Don’t worry, I won’t make you stroke your cock for that long. Just enough to give you a little taste. Then it’s back in the cage you go. You will be locked up tight and I will pocket the key. That doesn’t mean the cockteasing ends though.

There are so many ways I can make you uncomfortable. What if I sat down on the couch and started playing with myself? You wouldn’t know what to do with yourself!

Yes, now that I have your key, you are in for a bumpy ride.

Male Chastity

Mistress Ryan — Wed, 22 Jun 2011 19:10:17 +0000

Welcome back, wannabe male chastity slaves. I know you’re interested in what else I have to say about being your keyholder, so I won’t make you wait any longer. Like I mentioned in my previous blog, for those of you who need an extra measure of control over Mistress Ryan’s orgasm denial, there’s always the option of chastity.

I’ve done a good bit of keyholding over the years, so I have the experience needed in this area.

The two of us will pick out a chastity device for you. I’ll allow you to give your own input as far as what I have you purchase since you’ll be the one wearing it, but, naturally, the final decision will rest with me. Once your device arrives, I want to see you putting it on and wearing it. Then, of course, you’ll lock yourself into it and send me the key for safekeeping. You will not cut the lock for any reason except for a legitimate emergency. If you disobey this rule, your punishment will be swift and severe, slaves. You can count on that much.

All the rules about only touching yourself when you have permission apply doubly when you’re kept in chastity.

The only way you’ll be able to play with your cock is if you cut the lock on your device and remove it. Again, doing so will get you in a world of trouble, so it’s not something you want to do.

Just because I’m denying you orgasm doesn’t mean that I’m not going to keep you healthy. If a man goes too long without the release of seminal fluid, he runs the risk of having bad things happen to him physically. However, the release of these fluids can be achieved without you being able to orgasm, indeed without you having to touch your cock at all.

I will teach you the art of prostate milking. That way, we can make sure you’re staying healthy. There’s also the added bonus of it making you even more frustrated!

In time, however, you will adjust to your state of chastity, and you’ll love submitting to your Mistress in this way.