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Male Chastity: Is it right for you

Mistress Ryan — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 19:00:22 +0000

I want to lock you up and throw away the key. How does that sound? You see, I think men are just better when they aren’t worrying about their cocks. From the time you hit puberty (if not before) your dick is the sole focus of your life.

With chastity training, you realize that there is more to life than just stroking your cock.

I have a friend of mine who has been in chastity for about three months now.

Previously, he’d been so intent on masturbating and getting laid that he never stopped to think if he deserved it or not. And with a single click of a lock, his entire world came into focus. Of course, he is occasionally let out and allowed to have an orgasm but that is few and far between. Eventually he may not be able to orgasm at all.

I quizzed him about whether he enjoyed being chaste and he told me he loved it.

As a submissive man, his desire was to serve but he was always getting distracted by his own needs. Now he can serve without feeling the need to masturbate constantly. He loves to do whatever his Mistress asks and his favorite honor is to lick her pussy. It sounds like he has a great life.

But chastity isn’t for everyone.

As much as I would like to lock you all up and tease and torment you forever, that won’t be the case. It comes down to what you truly desire and your capabilities. Although I have to say, the sight of a man in a chastity belt gets me hot.

There’s something so vulnerable and permanent about it. Every time I see it, I can’t help but have a little fun with myself. And if you were my chaste slave, you would be the one pleasing me. Now how does that sound?

Handjob Tease and Mistress Denial

Mistress Ryan — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 17:00:28 +0000

When Mistress catches you masturbating, sometimes she can be forgiving. Other times, you have to accept that Mistress will deny you that pleasure. And occasionally, you may have to suffer for it before earning anything.

I’m going to squeeze.

Squeeze until there are tears in your eyes and you are gasping for breath.

It started out so innocently, didn’t it?

You were stroking your cock when you felt my body press against yours. I reached down and began playing with your cock, causing you to moan and ask for more. Our lips touched briefly and that only spurred you on.

As my hand slid up and down your shaft, you closed your eyes and bit your lip, letting the feelings of pleasure take over. This was ten times better than regular masturbation.

And then I stopped.

You seemed to be confused, wondering why this perfect handjob wasn’t continuing. But of course I had to deny you; it’s what I love to do. All it takes is a single moment of denial for me to assert my dominance over you.

And that moment continues over and over again as I stroke your dick and then deny, watching as it becomes harder and harder for you to maintain control.

You start to beg, asking me, pleading with me to let you cum. You want it so badly you can taste it but I’m not going to be that easy on you.

And that’s when you tell me that you are going to cum anyway.

Well isn’t that rather ‘cocky’ of you. And that’s when I start to squeeze. Not just the shaft of your dick but your balls too, adjusting my hand until I have you in an iron grip. You are begging now, but not to cum. You just want the pain to stop.

In response I squeeze a bit harder and tears flood your eyes.

I make you promise not to orgasm until you are told

You nod fervently, knowing what the consequences will be if you do so. I slowly release your cock and you let out a sigh of relief.

It is throbbing with pain but still erect. Your heart is pumping madly and you know that little act of pain is going to make it that much harder to be in control.

You take a deep breath and on my command, begin to stroke your cock once more.

Free Phone Sex Giveaway

Mistress Ryan — Tue, 06 Dec 2011 20:49:56 +0000

Are you good at writing scripts and podcast recordings? Do you want to win free phone sex?

What’s at stake?

Mistress Ryan of http://femdomcalls.com is giving away FIVE Free phone sex sessions.

How to Win:

Submit an email to ryan@enchantrixempire.com with a script that will be recorded for a podcast. The first 5 people to submit a recording will win 10 minutes free with Mistress Ryan.

What am I giving away?

The script should be between 10 and 15 minutes long

The topics can be anything but some suggestions would be

Male Chastity
Female Domination
Body Worship
Tease and Denial
Cuckolding

How do I know I’ve won?

You will receive email confirmation of your winning as a reply to your submission no later than 12:00 PM on 12/8/2011. Entries must be received no later than 11:59pm EST on 12/7/2011.

Cum Eating Fantasies: The CFNM Fantasy Continued

Mistress Ryan — Fri, 02 Dec 2011 01:00:28 +0000

Hello there.

Are you back to hear the ending to my CFNM humiliation story from the other day?

Good! Something tells me you will enjoy hearing about it as much as I enjoyed participating in it.

As you recall, your Femdom Mistress left off just as my shy, reserved submissive began to stroke for me, right in front of everyone. His face flamed red as he obeyed me and masturbated in front of everyone. Knowing how much he abhors being watched (he’s really not an exhibitionist in the slightest), he was quite humiliated. Still, he knew that he must obey me, so he removed his clothes and began to masturbate in plain sight of the whole room simply because I instructed him to do so.

My friends were amused at his display; taking perverse delight in how acutely uncomfortable he was with being naked and jerking off in front of strangers.

They certainly did their best to increase his discomfort by making comments about his penis size and so forth.

As this was a demonstration of my power and nothing more, I had given him permission to cum whenever he needed to, and he was obviously trying to jerk off as quickly as he could to get his humiliating punishment over with as quickly as possible. I’m sure you are familiar with what happens when you try to “rush through” an assignment. Inevitably, you wind up losing your focus and sometimes there’s a “slip up”. Unfortunately for my submissive, he’s no different from you and as he was stroking furiously, he exploded with an orgasm …

And shot his creamy load all over the shoe of one of my closest Mistress friends.

When he saw where his cum had landed, he blushed even harder, which was something I wouldn’t have thought possible at the time. I pointed out to him that when a gentleman musses a lady’s clothing, he always takes it upon himself to make amends as best he can. He looked around for a moment, at a loss for what to do, and then it dawned on him: Mistress Ryan expected him to eat his cum off her friend’s shoe.

There was more laughter as he hit his knees and began to lick the cum off her dainty sandal and bare toes. The poor boy probably thought his public CFNM and cum eating humiliation would never end, but I’ll tell you something … I haven’t had a moment’s trouble out of him masturbating without permission since then.

CFNM Fantasies

Mistress Ryan — Wed, 30 Nov 2011 03:16:05 +0000

You often hear Mistresses talking about behavior modification and how they trained their submissives.

Training is an important aspect of the Femdom/male sub relationship if the Mistress wishes to get the obedience she deserves from her submissive counterpart.

In my experience as both a lifestyle Mistress and a phone sex Mistress, I’ve found that you can’t just have a submissive swap out one behavior for another at the same time. Coercing learned behaviour requires attention, dedication and training. The Mistress must first “break” the bad habits (or behaviours) using a system of reward and punishment (well, really just punishment) and then she must encourage the new, desirable behaviours by using rewards. This reminds me of a submissive of mine in the past.

When he originally came to me, he had a very difficult time accepting the level of cock control that I expected to wield.

Occasionally, he would rebel against it by masturbating without permission or by openly defying my requests. Both behaviours, as you can imagine, were unacceptable for me. I tolerated his rebellion for a short time, hoping he would come around but it became clear rather quickly that he would require a firmer attention. He was new to the lifestyle and didn’t understand what he’d gotten himself into. It was time to do something about it.

My solution involved a rather interesting take on public humiliation.

My submissive was quite reserved, almost to the point of being shy in front of strangers. He was unassuming and tried not to draw attention to himself … it made him acutely uncomfortable to be the center of attention. So the perfect solution for his behaviour was to make him uncomfortable about what he was doing.

I brought him to a small play party hosted by a good friend of mine, thinking a CFNM session would do him good.

There were perhaps 10 FemDom Mistresses, along with their slaves and some unattached submissives as well. In full view of all the ladies there, I had him strip naked and expose himself to everyone. He was quite embarrassed, but he did exactly as he was told.

“Since you seem to enjoy masturbating so much, with or without permission,” I said, “perhaps you’d like to masturbate for our entertainment tonight.”

Couched as it was, seeming to appear as a question from a lover he hesitated for just a moment … but it didn’t take long for him to realize it wasn’t a request at all. With flaming cheeks, he began to stroke himself while my friends and I watched, bemused.

There is actually more to this story, but I feel I’ve gone on enough for now. Come back in a couple of days to hear the rest!

Foot Worship: Mistress Ryan’s Pedicurist

Mistress Ryan — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 11:00:14 +0000

Happy Thanksgiving to all of you! I’m off for today, spending time with friends and family (also known as, throwing open my doors and inviting everyone to come feast at my table) but I thought I could at least drop a quick note about something that happened while I was getting ready for today.

I hope each of you has a wonderful day with friends and family and all of my slaves take a moment to be thankful for the gifts I have allowed them to receive this year.

I was at the spa earlier this week, getting my pedicure (among other things), when the woman working at my feet looked up at me and said, “Ms. Ryan, you have really beautiful feet.” I was reading on my Kindle when she said it, so I was taken aback for a moment at being shaken out of my reverie (yes, I was reading yet another of my dirty romance novels). But I recovered quickly, smiled down at her, and thanked her for her kind words.

Now that I think about it, though, I must admit that she’s right. I do have some very nice feet, a fact to which all you foot worship lovers will most certainly attest!

If you foot fetish boys can get over your envy of my pedicurist and how she has such free access to my feet nearly every week, I might have a special treat in store for you. You see, despite the fact that your Femdom Mistress has bi-weekly pedicures, I still often enjoy having special attention paid to my lovely feet between times, too. That’s where you come in.

I’ve found that no one gives a better foot massage than a well-trained foot slave. A massage therapist may do an excellent job, but a foot slave does an even better one because of his passion for feet and his innate desire to please. I can have you read a couple of books about massage for me, and then you can begin your practical studies on my feet. I’ll give you the opportunity for lots and lots of practice …

Keyholding: Your Mistress has a chastity slave

Mistress Ryan — Thu, 27 Oct 2011 10:00:50 +0000

I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned this before, but your Mistress has a male chastity slave. He’s not one of those boys who puts himself in his own chastity device and can take himself out at any time. We tried that once and he failed, miserably. I caught him removing his device to sneak a rub and had to change our relationship. From that point forward, I actually had him sign a long-term chastity contract with me and give me the key to the lock on his device.

In true keyholding Femdom fashion, I keep his key on a chain around my wrist. When I go out and see people looking at my “bracelet,” I can’t help but smile because I know what it means, and they do not. It gives me an even bigger smile when I think of how much humiliation my chaste boy would feel if I were to explain what it was exactly to someone who asked!

You may think that male chastity phone sex would be boring because nobody cums, but you’d be wrong. (You’d also be wrong if you thought no one got sexual pleasure out of it because I get incredibly aroused at wielding this kind of power over a man’s cock.) Our sessions are actually a lot of fun because it means I get to pull out all the stops for my tease and denial games.

I sometimes have to hold back with my non-chaste slaves to keep them from going over the edge too soon. But with my poor boy locked in chastity hell, I don’t have to. It’s not like he can masturbate and cum, anyway!

Spanking Phone Sex

Mistress Ryan — Thu, 20 Oct 2011 10:00:12 +0000

Have you been a naughty boy?

How long have you been sitting here, stroking to the perfect image of your Femdom Mistress? I know you feel as if you just can’t help yourself, every single time you lay eyes upon me. But you know as well as I do that a naughty boy MUST be punished for disobeying my orders not to stroke.

You know that my favorite method of punishment is spanking.

There is absolutely NOTHING like the squeal and the squirm of a slave being spanked over my knee.

Just imagine the feel of my stockings against your cock as you squirm around on my lap. Oh, won’t your little ass just be so sore after a long, sensual spanking with your Mistress Ryan? The only real choice to be made here is whether to make you count aloud or gag you to quell the screams as my bare hand meets your bare ass.

I just love to tease during a spanking, too.

Running my nails lightly over the already tender, red flesh sends electric tingles all the way up your spine; your Mistress delights in punishing you with a nice, hard spanking until you have learned your lesson about disobeying me.

Your senses will be overwhelmed with both pain and pleasure, which, of course, will make you increasingly aroused. You may be surprised to notice that the harder your cock gets, the more bearable the spanking becomes; you may even find that spanking phone sex is just as arousing as other forms of foreplay.

Male Chastity Key Holder Services

Mistress Ryan — Fri, 23 Sep 2011 10:00:40 +0000

Let’s say you’ve made the decision to lock up your cock and send me the key. What happens next?

Well of course you have to actually send me the key.

This is the moment where things get real. You have a choice to make: Do you want to send me the key and place me in complete control of your manhood or not?

Most people get up to this point in the cock control game and then chicken out. It’s one thing to participate in a hot tease and denial session. It’s completely another to lock yourself up and give the key.

But this is what male chastity is all about.

Submission is a thread that runs throughout your entire body. You know as well as I do that to submit to another person gives you that feeling of wholeness.

Keyholding just amplifies this feeling and takes it to the next step.

Do you truly believe I have control of your cock?

If I own your cock that means I get to do what I want with it.

Spank it or play with it or even lock it up. See, from the moment that key is sent, our bond becomes deeper. You are committing yourself fully to me and completely trusting me. That is the ‘key’ so to speak of an excellent FemDom Mistress/sub relationship.

I’ve had subs tell me that when they give me the key, it’s like a sigh of relief. They are in a place of true chastity submission.

Of course, one of the major trepidations that come with keyholding is the worry about what is going to happen next. Are you never going to be able to cum? What exactly am I going to do with you?

It’s not as if I will get your key and then toss your fantasies out the window. No, the Mistress/sub relationship is not only built on commitment but on trust as well.

So tell me, would you send me your key?

I’m very interested in your answer….

Captivity Hell

Mistress Ryan — Tue, 20 Sep 2011 19:03:05 +0000

What’s this?

You are stuck behind bars? How did you get yourself into such a pickle?

There’s a bump on your head and you don’t remember how you landed in this jail of sorts. All you know is that you are here and you are … completely naked!

What are you going to do?

You cry out for help but hear nothing in return. You are in absolute captivity hell and you don’t know what to do about it.

The door opens and you begin to demand some answers but stop short at the sight of me entering the room. You did not expect that your captor would be quite so beautiful and striking did you?

I tell you to get on your knees and you obey, the harsh tone in my voice telling you it would be unwise to disobey.

What am I going to do with you? Your mind reels with the possibilities.

Are you going to be tortured?

Yes, you are. But not in the way you think.

I outline my naughty plan for you. You are going to be my submissive male captive for as long as I see fit. This means that I can do anything I want with you.

The first thing I’m going to do is make you stroke your cock.

Your eyes widen at my command but you obey, feeling a bit awkward that you are doing this in front of me.

Don’t worry, you will get over it.

I want you to stroke that cock until you are very hard indeed. And then, once you are panting and ready to come, you will just have to stop. You see, the purpose of this captivity is to show you that you are nothing more than my slave to do with as I wish.

Captivity fantasies roll through your head and you know that you won’t be able to resist any Femdom interrogation that comes your way.

You are definitely screwed.