In my dream, I had a sexy submissive man tied, spread-eagle across my bed.  His feet and hands were tied up [...]]]> Cock Control Dreams

I had a great dream about cock control last night that I want to tell all of you about.  I have a funny feeling that you’ll love it as much as I did.

In my dream, I had a sexy submissive man tied, spread-eagle across my bed.  His feet and hands were tied up using my favourite leather restraints and the look on his face was that arousing mixture of anticipation and trepidation … he was quite vulnerable, which of course had me tingling with excitement!  I just couldn’t resist tormenting him a bit, to see how much he could take.

The Torment Begins …

I climbed in bed with him and sat down between his widely-spread legs.  His cock, already hard and throbbing before I’d ever touched him, jumped when I wrapped my well lubricated hand around it.  My strokes started off oh-so-slowly … almost agonizing as I pumped up and down.  He squirmed and bucked his hips … he was hoping to get me to stroke him faster and harder to push him toward orgasm.  But I didn’t.  I kept up that gentle, torturously slow pace and leaned forward to lick, suck, and otherwise tease his nipples.  His gasps of pleasure as I teased his body were delicious … even when he started begging, I just kept up the tease!

When you find yourself at the edge …

And then I did with this boy exactly what I do with my callers:  cock control and lots of it.  I’d tease him until he was at the very edge, about to cum all over himself, and then stop.  He made the most frustrated sounds, and it was music to my ears!  And you know what … I did it over and over and over.  His agony and frustration increased exponentially each time I did it, and all I could do was smile.  His body was trembling with every stroke closer to the edge and his eyes pleaded with me to allow him release …

I woke up before I either allowed him to cum or untied him and sent him home with strict orders not to masturbate, so it’s up to you to decide how it ends.  Of course, when you call me, it’ll be up to me to decide.  I’m currently fantasizing about ruined orgasms, so perhaps I’ll tie you down to the bed and tease you like I teased the dream boy.  Edge you so close to where you feel your whole body tense with the impending orgasm … and then stop.  You’ll still cum, don’t you worry about that.  But without the stimulation of my hand, it’ll be completely unsatisfying when you shoot your load up into the air.

Poor you.

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As you can probably tell, I like strap on play.  The fact that I talk about it fairly regularly in my blog should’ve tipped you off, if nothing else!  Of course, for you anal virgins out there, or for those of you who haven’t had much of anything in your nether hole, the prospect probably [...]]]>

As you can probably tell, I like strap on play.  The fact that I talk about it fairly regularly in my blog should’ve tipped you off, if nothing else!  Of course, for you anal virgins out there, or for those of you who haven’t had much of anything in your nether hole, the prospect probably seems a bit daunting, doesn’t it?

Not to worry.  Mistress Ryan has a plan, as always.

I’m going to work with you to get you ready, willing, and able to take objects of any size in that little hole of yours.  All it’s going to take is a little work and a whole lot of lube.  Are you ready for it?

To begin our strap on training, you’re going to need to be naked, naturally.  So take all your clothes off for your Mistress and lie down somewhere quiet and comfortable, like on your bed in your bedroom.  Very good.  Now I want you to stroke your cock a little for me.  Not enough to make yourself cum, of course, but enough to get you excited for the fun that is to come.

Now then, tell me what kind of lube you have and if you’ve got any toys.  You do have some, don’t you?  They’re not a requirement, but it’s a lot easier to penetrate yourself with a toy you can press down against than to contort your body so that you put your fingers in your ass.  If you don’t already own a dildo, might I suggest The Pace from Stockroom.

What we’re going to do is a nice, long guided masturbation session that mixes cock stroking and anal training.  It may take more than one such session to get your ass to where it can take every single inch of my big strap on, but I’m certainly willing to do the necessary work if you are.

We’ll have you ready to be my little strap on slut before you know it.  As I’ve said before, I think strap on play is one of the ultimate expressions of female dominance and male submission, and you’re about to be able to experience it during one of our Femdom phone sex calls.  Call me, and let’s get the party started!

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I’m in a rather sadistic mood today and looking for a very special boy to play with. Are you that guy?

Let me tell you, I woke up early this morning and rolled over; my hands grazing the small toy chest beside by bed. (My toy collection is by no means small, just [...]]]> Hello Phone Sex Boys!

I’m in a rather sadistic mood today and looking for a very special boy to play with. Are you that guy?

Let me tell you, I woke up early this morning and rolled over; my hands grazing the small toy chest beside by bed. (My toy collection is by no means small, just scattered throughout my area). I opened it up and my fingers enclosed themselves around one of my favourite paddles.

Yes, I’m in a spanking mood today.

Now you may ask yourself, how can a spanking phone sex session compare to the real thing? Darling, when I’m through with you, the red welts on your ass won’t be the only thing you remember. You see, I like to incorporate spanking into everyday roleplay.

I know you naughty subs out there should be punished from time to time and while I’m often cerebral in my punishments, today I’m all about the pain. Yes, I want you to bend over and expose that ass of yours to me. Beg for your punishment as you tell me all the things you did to displease me.

Maybe you gave in during our tease and denial session before I told you to? Or perhaps you didn’t don those pink panties to work like I asked? Whatever the case, today you will be punished for it. And hard.

You see, that favourite paddle of mine? It’s pink and black. It’s small and at first you might scoff at the damage it could do until I turn it around and show you the tiny metal spikes on the other side. I bet you are frightened now aren’t you?  But your cock is hard too. Perhaps you are trembling a bit at the thought of being spanked by me. You see, a spanking from me is as much an honour as it is a punishment.

And perhaps after I’ve punished you hard for your sins, I will finish you off by pulling out one of my big, black strapons and reaming you in the ass. Yes, I think that’s a wise course of action.

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Basically, what happens is you get a group of people together with some sort [...]]]> If you’ve been to college–and, most likely, even if you haven’t–you’ve played (or at least heard of) the “Never Have I Ever” drinking game.  Just in case you somehow managed to miss this game of youthful exuberance, I’ll explain it to you.

Basically, what happens is you get a group of people together with some sort of alcoholic beverage.  Each person takes a turn saying an “I’ve never” statement.  This might be something as tame as “I’ve never ridden in an airplane” or as naughty as “I’ve never had sex with a tranny.”  Any of the other people in the group who actually have done what the speaker says he or she hasn’t done must take a shot.  Play continues around the circle, with each player trying to think of things (usually embarrassing ones) that the other players have done that he or she has not.  The game ends when everyone is very drunk, or at a set number of shots, but that’s not quite as fun.

Now, I’m not just telling you about this game for your own edification.  I’ve been thinking that with a little tweaking, it would make an amazing tease and denial game.

I would love to get a group of my submissive boys together to play this.  Only there wouldn’t be any alcohol involved.  Also, I would be the only person issuing the embarrassing “I’ve never” statements.  Each time you’ve done the thing I mention, you’d have to remove an article of clothing.  “I’ve never eaten my Mistress’s creampie” would probably be a nice way to start, since most of you have done that before!

Once you’re all naked, which certainly won’t take long, the next thing I’ll have you do is jerk off for a set amount of time.  I might say, “I’ve never dressed in panties for Mistress’s pleasure,” and all of you who have done it have to masturbate for 30 seconds.  Of course, at this point, I’ll be choosing things that I know all of you have done.

That’s when it turns into a humiliating tease and denial game, where I force you to masturbate in front of other men and don’t give you permission to cum.  The first one to cum is punished severely, as is each other boy who comes after him.  The winner is the one who manages not to cum…the one with the bluest balls!

Sounds pretty ingenious to me.

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Shallow women will tell you that they’re ugly or that they all look the same, but I don’t think anything could be farther from the truth.  Cocks are just as unique as their owners.  Or, in the case of some, as the body they’re attached to.  I own quite [...]]]> I find cocks to be utterly fascinating.

Shallow women will tell you that they’re ugly or that they all look the same, but I don’t think anything could be farther from the truth.  Cocks are just as unique as their owners.  Or, in the case of some, as the body they’re attached to.  I own quite a few cocks, and each of them is not just like me!

For guided masturbation purposes, it doesn’t even matter if your cock is small or large, straight or curved, thick or thin, black or white.  There are only two things that matter:  your ability to follow orders and the way your hand feels wrapped around your cock.

I don’t have a script or a road map that I follow when I lead a directed masturbation call.  You see, because every man and every cock are different, it stands to reason that every sensation feels different, too, yes?  So what I like to do is to explore with you the different sensations that we can create and see which ones get the reactions I desire.

Slow and sensual is my usual style, but I do have the occasional man who likes his jerk-off time to be a little rougher.  Handling the delicate bits more roughly than usual can be awfully fun for me.

Another important aspect in guided masturbation phone sex is timing.  The timing involved can either make or break your experience.  That’s why when I give you an order, I expect you to comply with it immediately.  You have to stroke your cock exactly as I tell you to with the exact speed I demand.  You must start stroking when I instruct you to, and you must stop when I say so.
It sounds so easy, but it can be rather difficult.  It all goes back to having trust in your phone sex Mistress.  You do trust that I will give you the best experience possible, so long as you obey me, don’t you?

Only my very good boys get to try out Mistress Ryan’s extremely enjoyable version of guided masturbation.  Call me and see if you can be one of the lucky ones.

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The basics of cock control are quite [...]]]> A while back, I did a blog post about guided masturbation.  We talked about some of the offshoots of such a call, including tease and denial.  I’d like to go back to that for just a moment, as I saw something this morning which made me squeal with delight.

The basics of cock control are quite simple … you are teased just to the edge and then left alone until you calm down, over and over again until your Mistress determines you’ve earned your orgasm.  This can sometimes lead to prolonged sessions which can be stretched out for hours in between and, in reality it’s not always possible to spend every waking moment with a submissive, ensuring he obeys and leaves his cock alone.  Sometimes, a teasing session may include overnight waiting periods that can lead to disobedience once Mistress is asleep.  It may not even be intentional that the submissive reach down and stroke during the night.  Now, however those brilliant folks over at Stockroom.com have come up with the perfect tool for masturbation denial.

The Double Fist Mitt is absolutely perfect for ensuring a submissive’s obedience in not touching their cock while Mistress is otherwise engaged.  As described on the website, the mitt is made with 30-gauge black latex (that’s about as thick as it gets), it has two PVC wrist belts, two chrome-plated D-rings, and two chrome-plated steel lockable buckles.  There’s not a chance in the world of anyone touching themselves while buckled into this baby … imagine the possibilities of extended tease & denial sessions, keeping a wayward cuckold from disobeying his training or even a new twist on chastity training!

Of course, this could also be used in conjunction with mummification or sensory deprivation … or just really kinky Mistresses who like bondage (innocent look).

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“You know … Lucy from the Peanuts comic [...]]]> The other day, someone mentioned to me that I remind them of Lucy.  It took me a few minutes before I finally had to ask .. “Lucy WHO?”  (As some of you know, I am somewhat red-headed and was hoping they didn’t mean Lucille Ball).  Thankfully, he didn’t.

“You know … Lucy from the Peanuts comic strip.  The one who tormented Charlie Brown and had the little stand that said ‘Psychiatric Help 5¢’ and used to hold the football.”

“OK.  I know who you are talking about, but what on earth makes you say that I remind you of her?  I’ve not done anything lately to shatter your self-image, nor to humiliate you for your shortcomings.”

At this point, he rolled his eyes at me and grinned. “No Ma’am, but you DO go out of your way to provide advice and guidance to those who are looking to expand upon their sexual knowledge.  So really … you’re like Lucy in Leather.” (his grin is adorable, with 2 little dimples in his cheeks … and really, that is what saved him at this point in the conversation)

“Lucy in leather, huh?  Does this mean Charlie Brown is my bitch? … and is Stewie the football headed baby our bastard love child?”

The conversation denigrated from there but now that I sit back and think about it … I suppose I am a bit like her.  A great majority of my day is spent advising and dispensing knowledge to those who are looking to find something new about their sexual fetishes or discover a new kink.  I enjoy talking to men who get on cam and show off how to masturbate, perhaps telling them about a new technique they haven’t tried before.  It excites me to speak with a pathetic cuckold who’s wife is just now out satisfying her urge for huge cock, while he sits at home washing her lingerie.  Of course, having him hand wash her pretty panties while my strapon is buried inside his hole just makes it so much more arousing for me.

So I guess I am a bit like Lucy in Leather.  I’m willing to share my knowledge, dispense my advice and every once in a while … watch you fall flat on your ass when I move the football.

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