With chastity training, you realize that . . . → Read More: Male Chastity: Is it right for you]]>

I want to lock you up and throw away the key. How does that sound? You see, I think men are just better when they aren’t worrying about their cocks. From the time you hit puberty (if not before) your dick is the sole focus of your life.

With chastity training, you realize that there is more to life than just stroking your cock.

I have a friend of mine who has been in chastity for about three months now.

Previously, he’d been so intent on masturbating and getting laid that he never stopped to think if he deserved it or not.  And with a single click of a lock, his entire world came into focus.  Of course, he is occasionally let out and allowed to have an orgasm but that is few and far between. Eventually he may not be able to orgasm at all.

I quizzed him about whether he enjoyed being chaste and he told me he loved it.

As a submissive man, his desire was to serve but he was always getting distracted by his own needs. Now he can serve without feeling the need to masturbate constantly. He loves to do whatever his Mistress asks and his favorite honor is to lick her pussy. It sounds like he has a great life.

But chastity isn’t for everyone.

As much as I would like to lock you all up and tease and torment you forever, that won’t be the case. It comes down to what you truly desire and your capabilities. Although I have to say, the sight of a man in a chastity belt gets me hot.

There’s something so vulnerable and permanent about it. Every time I see it, I can’t help but have a little fun with myself. And if you were my chaste slave, you would be the one pleasing me.  Now how does that sound?

Squeeze until there are tears in your eyes and you are gasping for breath.

It . . . → Read More: Handjob Tease and Mistress Denial]]>

When Mistress catches you masturbating, sometimes she can be forgiving. Other times, you have to accept that Mistress will deny you that pleasure. And occasionally, you may have to suffer for it before earning anything.

I’m going to squeeze.

Squeeze until there are tears in your eyes and you are gasping for breath.

It started out so innocently, didn’t it?

You were stroking your cock when you felt my body press against yours. I reached down and began playing with your cock, causing you to moan and ask for more. Our lips touched briefly and that only spurred you on.

As my hand slid up and down your shaft, you closed your eyes and bit your lip, letting the feelings of pleasure take over. This was ten times better than regular masturbation.

And then I stopped.

You seemed to be confused, wondering why this perfect handjob wasn’t continuing. But of course I had to deny you; it’s what I love to do. All it takes is a single moment of denial for me to assert my dominance over you.

And that moment continues over and over again as I stroke your dick and then deny, watching as it becomes harder and harder for you to maintain control.

You start to beg, asking me, pleading with me to let you cum. You want it so badly you can taste it but I’m not going to be that easy on you.

And that’s when you tell me that you are going to cum anyway.

Well isn’t that rather ‘cocky’ of you. And that’s when I start to squeeze. Not just the shaft of your dick but your balls too, adjusting my hand until I have you in an iron grip. You are begging now, but not to cum. You just want the pain to stop.

In response I squeeze a bit harder and tears flood your eyes.

I make you promise not to orgasm until you are told

You nod fervently, knowing what the consequences will be if you do so.  I slowly release your cock and you let out a sigh of relief.

It is throbbing with pain but still erect. Your heart is pumping madly and you know that little act of pain is going to make it that much harder to be in control.

You take a deep breath and on my command, begin to stroke your cock once more.

Mistress Ryan of http://femdomcalls.com is giving away FIVE Free phone sex sessions.

Submit an email to ryan@enchantrixempire.com with a script that will be recorded for a podcast. The first 5 people . . . → Read More: Free Phone Sex Giveaway]]>

Are you good at writing scripts and podcast recordings?  Do you want to win free phone sex?

What’s at stake?

Mistress Ryan of http://femdomcalls.com is giving away FIVE Free phone sex sessions.

How to Win:

Submit an email to ryan@enchantrixempire.com with a script that will be recorded for a podcast. The first 5 people to submit a recording will win 10 minutes free with Mistress Ryan.

What am I giving away?

The script should be between 10 and 15 minutes long

The topics can be anything but some suggestions would be

• Male Chastity
• Female Domination
• Body Worship
• Tease and Denial
• Cuckolding

How do I know I’ve won?

You will receive email confirmation of your winning as a reply to your submission no later than 12:00 PM on 12/8/2011.  Entries must be received no later than 11:59pm EST on 12/7/2011.

Each Mistress does as she finds exciting and certainly I am no different. . . . → Read More: Cuckold Fantasies]]>

There are a wide variety of FemDom Mistresses and the things we find enjoyable, acceptable or exciting vary from one Mistress to another.

Some of us take lovers, others prefer not.  Some are very sexual with their submissives, others less so.

Each Mistress does as she finds exciting and certainly I am no different. Being aside that I am recently wed to my long-term submissive Melissa, one would think that my preference to refrain from having sex with my submissives is something new but, in reality most of you know it’s not.  Even being that I am a lesbian does not factor into the decision to keep my submissives, for all intents and purposes, cuckolded.  It’s simply a choice I have made.  My lovers are my lovers (and very rarely submissive) whereas my submissives are very rarely my lovers.  Power exchange is quite important to me, as you know and I enjoy using that power to my advantage.

I feel that if I were to have sex with my submissives, it might give them the mistaken impression that they are equal to me in our relationship.

That is definitely not the case, so I prefer to keep the two separate.

Therefore, by definition, any submissive male who enters my service is a cuckold.  It may not be an aspect of the relationship that we focus on, but it is a technical fact.  In other words, when a man who speaks to me wishes to engage in cuckold phone sex, he is making himself a cuckold! That does not, however, mean that I’m uninterested in cuckold phone sessions.

Quite the contrary.  Cuckold roleplays are some of my favorites.

The question, though, is not what kind of hot scenarios I can cook up for you to jerk off to.  The question is, what can you do for me during the course of such a roleplay that will make you a valuable cuckold submissive?  Would you make a good coerced bi fluffer boy, perhaps, or a good creampie cleanup boy?  These are some very important things to think about before committing yourself to a cuckold roleplay with your phone sex Mistress Ryan.

Good!  Something tells me you will enjoy hearing about it as much as I enjoyed participating in it.

As you recall, your Femdom Mistress left off just as my shy, reserved submissive began to stroke for . . . → Read More: Cum Eating Fantasies: The CFNM Fantasy Continued]]>

Hello there.

Are you back to hear the ending to my CFNM humiliation story from the other day?

Good!  Something tells me you will enjoy hearing about it as much as I enjoyed participating in it.

As you recall, your Femdom Mistress left off just as my shy, reserved submissive began to stroke for me, right in front of everyone.  His face flamed red as he obeyed me and masturbated in front of everyone.  Knowing how much he abhors being watched (he’s really not an exhibitionist in the slightest), he was quite humiliated.  Still, he knew that he must obey me, so he removed his clothes and began to masturbate in plain sight of the whole room simply because I instructed him to do so.

My friends were amused at his display; taking perverse delight in how acutely uncomfortable he was with being naked and jerking off in front of strangers.

They certainly did their best to increase his discomfort by making comments about his penis size and so forth.

As this was a demonstration of my power and nothing more, I had given him permission to cum whenever he needed to, and he was obviously trying to jerk off as quickly as he could to get his humiliating punishment over with as quickly as possible.  I’m sure you are familiar with what happens when you try to “rush through” an assignment.  Inevitably, you wind up losing your focus and sometimes there’s a “slip up”.  Unfortunately for my submissive, he’s no different from you and as he was stroking furiously, he exploded with an orgasm …

And shot his creamy load all over the shoe of one of my closest Mistress friends.

When he saw where his cum had landed, he blushed even harder, which was something I wouldn’t have thought possible at the time.  I pointed out to him that when a gentleman musses a lady’s clothing, he always takes it upon himself to make amends as best he can.  He looked around for a moment, at a loss for what to do, and then it dawned on him:  Mistress Ryan expected him to eat his cum off her friend’s shoe.

There was more laughter as he hit his knees and began to lick the cum off her dainty sandal and bare toes.  The poor boy probably thought his public CFNM and cum eating humiliation would never end, but I’ll tell you something … I haven’t had a moment’s trouble out of him masturbating without permission since then.

In my experience as both a lifestyle Mistress and a phone sex Mistress, I’ve found that . . . → Read More: CFNM Fantasies]]>

You often hear Mistresses talking about behavior modification and how they trained their submissives.

Training is an important aspect of the Femdom/male sub relationship if the Mistress wishes to get the obedience she deserves from her submissive counterpart.

In my experience as both a lifestyle Mistress and a phone sex Mistress, I’ve found that you can’t just have a submissive swap out one behavior for another at the same time.  Coercing learned behaviour requires attention, dedication and training.  The Mistress must first “break” the bad habits (or behaviours) using a system of reward and punishment (well, really just punishment) and then she must encourage the new, desirable behaviours by using rewards.  This reminds me of a submissive of mine in the past.

When he originally came to me, he had a very difficult time accepting the level of cock control that I expected to wield.

Occasionally, he would rebel against it by masturbating without permission or by openly defying my requests.  Both behaviours, as you can imagine, were unacceptable for me.  I tolerated his rebellion for a short time, hoping he would come around but it became clear rather quickly that he would require a firmer attention.  He was new to the lifestyle and didn’t understand what he’d gotten himself into.  It was time to do something about it.

My solution involved a rather interesting take on public humiliation.

My submissive was quite reserved, almost to the point of being shy in front of strangers.  He was unassuming and tried not to draw attention to himself … it made him acutely uncomfortable to be the center of attention.  So the perfect solution for his behaviour was to make him uncomfortable about what he was doing.

I brought him to a small play party hosted by a good friend of mine, thinking a CFNM session would do him good.

There were perhaps 10 FemDom Mistresses, along with their slaves and some unattached submissives as well.  In full view of all the ladies there, I had him strip naked and expose himself to everyone.  He was quite embarrassed, but he did exactly as he was told.

“Since you seem to enjoy masturbating so much, with or without permission,” I said, “perhaps you’d like to masturbate for our entertainment tonight.”

Couched as it was, seeming to appear as a question from a lover he hesitated for just a moment … but it didn’t take long for him to realize it wasn’t a request at all.  With flaming cheeks, he began to stroke himself while my friends and I watched, bemused.

There is actually more to this story, but I feel I’ve gone on enough for now.  Come back in a couple of days to hear the rest!