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Male Chastity: Is it right for you

Mistress Ryan — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 19:00:22 +0000

I want to lock you up and throw away the key. How does that sound? You see, I think men are just better when they aren’t worrying about their cocks. From the time you hit puberty (if not before) your dick is the sole focus of your life.

With chastity training, you realize that there is more to life than just stroking your cock.

I have a friend of mine who has been in chastity for about three months now.

Previously, he’d been so intent on masturbating and getting laid that he never stopped to think if he deserved it or not. And with a single click of a lock, his entire world came into focus. Of course, he is occasionally let out and allowed to have an orgasm but that is few and far between. Eventually he may not be able to orgasm at all.

I quizzed him about whether he enjoyed being chaste and he told me he loved it.

As a submissive man, his desire was to serve but he was always getting distracted by his own needs. Now he can serve without feeling the need to masturbate constantly. He loves to do whatever his Mistress asks and his favorite honor is to lick her pussy. It sounds like he has a great life.

But chastity isn’t for everyone.

As much as I would like to lock you all up and tease and torment you forever, that won’t be the case. It comes down to what you truly desire and your capabilities. Although I have to say, the sight of a man in a chastity belt gets me hot.

There’s something so vulnerable and permanent about it. Every time I see it, I can’t help but have a little fun with myself. And if you were my chaste slave, you would be the one pleasing me. Now how does that sound?

Handjob Tease and Mistress Denial

Mistress Ryan — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 17:00:28 +0000

When Mistress catches you masturbating, sometimes she can be forgiving. Other times, you have to accept that Mistress will deny you that pleasure. And occasionally, you may have to suffer for it before earning anything.

I’m going to squeeze.

Squeeze until there are tears in your eyes and you are gasping for breath.

It started out so innocently, didn’t it?

You were stroking your cock when you felt my body press against yours. I reached down and began playing with your cock, causing you to moan and ask for more. Our lips touched briefly and that only spurred you on.

As my hand slid up and down your shaft, you closed your eyes and bit your lip, letting the feelings of pleasure take over. This was ten times better than regular masturbation.

And then I stopped.

You seemed to be confused, wondering why this perfect handjob wasn’t continuing. But of course I had to deny you; it’s what I love to do. All it takes is a single moment of denial for me to assert my dominance over you.

And that moment continues over and over again as I stroke your dick and then deny, watching as it becomes harder and harder for you to maintain control.

You start to beg, asking me, pleading with me to let you cum. You want it so badly you can taste it but I’m not going to be that easy on you.

And that’s when you tell me that you are going to cum anyway.

Well isn’t that rather ‘cocky’ of you. And that’s when I start to squeeze. Not just the shaft of your dick but your balls too, adjusting my hand until I have you in an iron grip. You are begging now, but not to cum. You just want the pain to stop.

In response I squeeze a bit harder and tears flood your eyes.

I make you promise not to orgasm until you are told

You nod fervently, knowing what the consequences will be if you do so. I slowly release your cock and you let out a sigh of relief.

It is throbbing with pain but still erect. Your heart is pumping madly and you know that little act of pain is going to make it that much harder to be in control.

You take a deep breath and on my command, begin to stroke your cock once more.

CFNM Fantasies

Mistress Ryan — Wed, 30 Nov 2011 03:16:05 +0000

You often hear Mistresses talking about behavior modification and how they trained their submissives.

Training is an important aspect of the Femdom/male sub relationship if the Mistress wishes to get the obedience she deserves from her submissive counterpart.

In my experience as both a lifestyle Mistress and a phone sex Mistress, I’ve found that you can’t just have a submissive swap out one behavior for another at the same time. Coercing learned behaviour requires attention, dedication and training. The Mistress must first “break” the bad habits (or behaviours) using a system of reward and punishment (well, really just punishment) and then she must encourage the new, desirable behaviours by using rewards. This reminds me of a submissive of mine in the past.

When he originally came to me, he had a very difficult time accepting the level of cock control that I expected to wield.

Occasionally, he would rebel against it by masturbating without permission or by openly defying my requests. Both behaviours, as you can imagine, were unacceptable for me. I tolerated his rebellion for a short time, hoping he would come around but it became clear rather quickly that he would require a firmer attention. He was new to the lifestyle and didn’t understand what he’d gotten himself into. It was time to do something about it.

My solution involved a rather interesting take on public humiliation.

My submissive was quite reserved, almost to the point of being shy in front of strangers. He was unassuming and tried not to draw attention to himself … it made him acutely uncomfortable to be the center of attention. So the perfect solution for his behaviour was to make him uncomfortable about what he was doing.

I brought him to a small play party hosted by a good friend of mine, thinking a CFNM session would do him good.

There were perhaps 10 FemDom Mistresses, along with their slaves and some unattached submissives as well. In full view of all the ladies there, I had him strip naked and expose himself to everyone. He was quite embarrassed, but he did exactly as he was told.

“Since you seem to enjoy masturbating so much, with or without permission,” I said, “perhaps you’d like to masturbate for our entertainment tonight.”

Couched as it was, seeming to appear as a question from a lover he hesitated for just a moment … but it didn’t take long for him to realize it wasn’t a request at all. With flaming cheeks, he began to stroke himself while my friends and I watched, bemused.

There is actually more to this story, but I feel I’ve gone on enough for now. Come back in a couple of days to hear the rest!

Mistress ruins your orgasm

Mistress Ryan — Mon, 05 Sep 2011 17:07:35 +0000

It’s been a while, hasn’t it? Most of you will notice that I’ve changed my schedule to have even MORE availability for your phone sex calls. You can now reach me most week days, between 11am and 12am EST. I’ve had a wonderful time re-acquainting myself with some of my slaves that I haven’t had a chance to chat with over the past year as well as meeting some new slaves to serve me obediently. Speaking of obedience … I’ve had the chance to really think about our sessions and I’ve decided something …

You get off way too easy with me.

I know we have guided masturbation sessions that can seem a little tough sometimes, but I do let you cum, don’t I? Even during our tease and denial games, you eventually get to shoot your load. My keyholding sessions on the other hand, are a bit more intense. They almost never end with an orgasm, but at least you know that going into it, yes? But, the point is that you can still recall the memories of orgasming to get you through the tough times. In fact, that’s what helps you last for days.

I don’t think that’s quite fair so I’m changing the rules.

Today isn’t going to be like any other day. Today, you are going to stroke your cock for me and I’m going to tease you unmercifully. Except for one thing: I’m going to ruin your orgasm.
Yes, you heard me.

Enough of this tease and delay which helps you get a bigger and better orgasm.

Today I want you to fully understand what it’s like to have your orgasm just slip away.

Just stroke your cock for me please. I love hearing you start to pant as you get more and more excited. A deep moan comes from your throat as you are jacking off, desperate to get to that orgasm. Too bad it’s not going to happen.

If I was there, I’d be right next to you, pressing my naked breasts against your back as I watched you stroke. In fact, I might reach over and help you out. There really is nothing like the feel of a cock in your hand. Up and down I’d stroke, every so often reaching down and giving your balls a squeeze.

I would move in front of you and begin to stroke a little faster. If you are lucky, I might even use a vibrator just on the tip. Anything to help you get to that magic moment.

You are caught up in the moment, delirious from the pleasure and ready to cum. And just as you do, I put my thumb over the head of your cock and then squeeze your balls so tight you cry out from the pain.

Your orgasm flutters away from you and dies, leaving you dejected.

Ooh, I like that look of abject disappointment on your face.

I will have to make sure it’s there more often.

Tease and Denial Chastity

Mistress Ryan — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 18:20:26 +0000

My recent posts on keyholding just got me thinking about how much I love a good tease and denial session. Can you imagine how torturous that would feel, having to stroke your cock after it being locked up for so long?

We’d start with a week.

I would lock you up and take the key and you would be made to suffer. That’s when the real cock teasing begins. Its funny how easily aroused you can get when your cock is all locked up, isn’t it?

All it will take is a cute photo or a seductive whisper in your ear and you will have lost it! Of course, you don’t even need that. Because the very act of male chastity turns you on, doesn’t it? The idea that I control your cock is almost too much for you.

At the end of the week, I would release your cock from your cage.

Now I’m going to make you stroke it. No doubt you have feared this. I mean the level of intensity you are feeling is crazy already. To then stroke your cock might make you lose all of your self control. And we wouldn’t want that, would we?

Your first, tentative stroke unleashes a groan as you feel pleasure pulsing throughout your body.

Who knows how long I’m going to make you do this.

I have to admit it turns me on seeing you like this. You are so completely helpless and desperate. You know that chastity training is necessary for you but at the same time your base instincts are taking over. That’s why you need lots and lots of training.

Don’t worry, I won’t make you stroke your cock for that long. Just enough to give you a little taste. Then it’s back in the cage you go. You will be locked up tight and I will pocket the key. That doesn’t mean the cockteasing ends though.

There are so many ways I can make you uncomfortable. What if I sat down on the couch and started playing with myself? You wouldn’t know what to do with yourself!

Yes, now that I have your key, you are in for a bumpy ride.

Tease and Denial: A New Approach

Mistress Ryan — Thu, 09 Jun 2011 19:30:42 +0000

Ready for tease and denial like you have never experienced it before?

Male orgasm denial isn’t just about you jerking off while I give you instructions. I mean, that’s definitely part of it but sometimes I like to spice things up. And that’s what we are going to do today.

First off, let’s both get naked.

You are very lucky because both of us will be naked. It’s not every day that I let a guy like you see me naked. So you had better get your fill.

I lean forward and give you a kiss, my hands wrapping around your body as your cock presses into my body. Your hands reach up and play with my beautiful, round tits as your lips make your way down to my red, pet nipples.

You are hard as a rock and as I slide my body against yours, you let out a moan.

And then I back away.

Yes, this is when the tease and denial games begin.

As I stand in front of you my fingers slip down towards my pussy and you instinctively reach for your cock. You didn’t think I was going to make it that easy, did you?

No, you can’t stroke your cock at all. Instead you have to watch as I sit next to you, spread my legs and finger my sexy pussy.

Its torture, isn’t it?

Then I let you near me again and we are kissing furiously, tongues entwining as you grind against me. Your hands are all over me and you are whispering in my ear, begging me to let you penetrate me. I just smile and back away again, leaving you panting and uncomfortable.

We could do this all night but I don’t think you have the stamina. Or the self control.

Just another reason why I need to control your cock.

As I pull you close to me again, I give you permission to rub your cock against my pussy. No penetration of course but this is just as good. And just as hot.

My slick, wet pussy feels so good against your cock and you are struggling to maintain control. I’m so hot and wet and ready that you can barely help yourself.

And then I back away once more, smiling while you fall to your knees and beg me to let you come.

I just smile…

Do you ever take phone sex calls anymore?

Mistress Ryan — Thu, 24 Mar 2011 12:00:05 +0000

I can’t tell you how often I’ve heard this lately. My schedule for the month of March was crazy with my surgery and all things associated with my recovery … and then my birthday! I felt as though the entire month of March slipped by like a cuckold in a room full of bulls! Fear not, however … I’ve finally made the decision to work on *gasp* a SCHEDULE (go on, click it … I’ll wait) ! I know, I know … hold back the applause or you’ll deafen your fellow strokers.

So, to answer your questions, yes … I still take phone sex calls and I’m still available for all your stroking and denial needs. But you have to know when to find me! Think of it like a hidden picture adventure … Except instead of wearing a frighteningly ugly red beanie hat, I’m wearing a red leather corset and a strapon harness!

So where have you been?

Well, most of you know that I had surgery earlier this month and that wiped a lot of my call times out while I was recuperating (Thank you so much for all of the beautiful flowers and gifts that kept my surroundings beautiful). I was also busy planning a special birthday gift for myself, involving an extended multi-mistress tease and denial session with my slave, R. He spent the entire day in a hotel room, naked and surrounded by a variety of toys and waited for several different mistresses to call him and tease him. At this time, I want to sincerely thank everyone who helped me to pull this off … specifically, my Mistresses-in-Denial: Mistress Tia, Mistress Bella, Mistress Constance, Mistress Peyton, Princess Heather & Princess Molly. Each and every one of these Ladies helped to make my birthday a very special one indeed. The sounds of his whimpering as he stroked and begged to be allowed to cum were almost enough to even make ME reconsider his long term chastity denial …

I also got some absolutely delightful birthday gifts … gift certificates for a massage, amazon cards so I can buy more ~~trashy romance~~ light reading, a gorgeous bouquet of flowers and a brand new headset that is going to make it possible for me to stretch out no matter where I am in the house to take your phone calls. A, L, R & Tabitha … thank you so much darlings.

For the rest of you … well, I DO celebrate my birthday for 30 days before and after … so don’t feel like you’re missing out!

When will you be around?

As I said earlier, I have a schedule posted here on my blog (here it is again for those of you who missed it the first time because you were too busy pumping out a load). I’ve changed my day off from Sunday to Wednesday … so for those of you who like to get a little dirty just before going back to work, you can now schedule an appointment with me … I’ve put my dispatch shifts, as well as any personal appointments that I may have (I work out at the gym every day from 10am – 12pm without exception). I keep this schedule up to date almost hourly, if something should change. And, as always you can email me at ryan@enchantrixempire.com to work with my schedule for something that suits yours. (And they say I never give … HA!)

So … there you have it … What I’ve been doing, when I did it and when you can do it with me.

Cheers

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Mutual Cockteasing, Coerced Bi Jerkoff

Mistress Ryan — Sun, 20 Mar 2011 02:11:44 +0000

Have you ever jacked someone off? Don’t lie to me. If you haven’t done it, I bet you have thought about it, haven’t you? After all, it’s perfectly natural to think about it.

Maybe it was in a dressing room after a game. Everyone else had left and you were heading to the shower when you noticed your buddy was there next to you. You couldn’t help but glimpse at his hard cock in the shower and although you looked away, he caught you peeking.

And then it escalated from there and soon you were sitting on the floor, masturbating each other.

I would recreate that fantasy for you in a heartbeat. Of course I would throw cocksucking into the mix! Yes, you cum curious men always want to taste cock. Is that what happens in your fantasies? You are jacking each other off in the shower one minute and the next you are cock sucking?

I’m sure that’s exactly how it goes.

But what if I were to walk into that dressing room?

There you boys are, furiously jacking each other off when you look up and see me staring down at you; a wicked smile on my face. You see, I know neither of you want this secret to come to life. And I can tell you will be prepared to do almost anything to keep it hidden.

I should test that theory, shouldn’t I?

I will turn you into cock sucking men. First you will suck off your friend and then he will suck off you. No coming of course. I always love to throw some tease and denial into the mix. Don’t worry, though. I know you are both cum curious men. I will make you swallow a load before we are done.

But the strap on comes first. Yes I’m a strap on mistress that takes no prisoners. I will take both your anal virginities hard and fast, leaving you sore and begging to be able to come.

The three of us will have tons of fun in that dressing room. I will make you do all sorts of naughty things and turn you into my coerced bi sluts.

And when I’m through with you, you will wonder how this got started in the first place and what lead you to be on your knees in the tiled floor of an open shower, your mouth open and waiting for the first spurt of cum…

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Tease and Denial: CBT!

Mistress Ryan — Wed, 23 Feb 2011 11:00:14 +0000

I like tease and denial as much as you do. But today I want to spice it up a bit. After all, we all know I have a little sadist that lives inside of me and even she needs a little love from time to time, yes?

It’s no fun if we do the same thing all the time, right?

That’s why I’m going to strip you naked and tie up your cock with a little collar and leash of sorts. You look so cute being led around the room by your cock. It definitely puts you in your place, does it not? I can see you are a bit confused about what the collar and leash is actually going to do. Well, why don’t you start stroking and find out? I want you to get that cock nice and hard for me and of course I want you to follow every single one of my masturbation instructions.

It feels a bit different …

Stroking when the base of your cock is tied up tight is new. And as you get excited, I can tell your tied up balls are making it just a little bit uncomfortable for you. As you keep stroking, I give a little tug on the leash. Then you discover what really makes this tease and deny so different from the others. Pain. Yes, the more I tug, the tighter it gets around your balls and cock. For each stroke I give you, you have to endure a sharp pull makes you wince in pain. It’s not really terrible, but just enough to remind you that someone else is in charge … someone else is allowing you to stroke and it’s for MY pleasure.

You can stop at any time you know.

If it hurts badly, you could get up and walk away. But I know you won’t do that. I control your cock far too much for that ever to be a thought. Back and forth I make you stroke then stop, all the while pulling harder and harder on your cock leash. It hurts, I know but you really want that orgasm don’t you? You are willing to do just about anything I think. And when you reach that exquisite breaking point, then you will be satisfied.

If I decide to let you cum. Or, even if I don’t …

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Confession of your Perversion

Mistress Ryan — Fri, 21 Jan 2011 19:00:00 +0000

Also known as “Your mother always told you your mouth would get you into trouble. Now look at where it’s gotten you!”

You awake suddenly, your heart pounding. You sit up straight and find yourself being pulled at the wrist. Looking over, you realize that your right wrist has been handcuffed to the bed.

You are a prisoner.

You vaguely remember the evening and just as a hazy picture is forming in your mind, I step into the room. You begin to babble, trying to explain yourself but I just lift my hand and you turn silent. In a few short words I explain that you agreed to come home with me and that now we are going to have a little fun.

After all, I tell you, you did confess your deepest and darkest fantasies to me.

Shock rushes through your body as you mentally catalogue all of the dirty fantasies you’ve had over the years. You could be in trouble.

It’s at that moment that you realize that you are completely naked. You attempt to cover up but I just begin to laugh. You are so cute. I’m going to have so much fun with you tonight, I think?

First is the masturbation session.

I give you some lube and tell you to stroke your cock. As you do so, I start lining up some tools and toys on the table. I can see your eyes widen at each one and your cock grows harder as well. I pull out my favorite paddle and lay it next to my thick butt plug. I put the jelly dildo next to the more realistic looking one. Cock rings come next, followed by a pair of panties.

Suffice to say, this is going to be one interesting night. You let out a groan and I look up.

You are close to cumming already and we haven’t even started!

Poor little wanker. You can barely control yourself, can you? It seems as if there’s a lot of work to be done. By the time this night is over, your training as a submissive boy will have begun!

Love,

Mistress Ryan

P.S. If you were held captive by me, what is the one thing that you would beg me to do to you?