Quite often, I’m asked what the difference is between a tease . . . → Read More: Guided Masturbation]]>

Whether you are a “stroker”, a “humper”, a “grinder” or just a guy who likes to touch himself, there are subtle differences in your phone sex call that you may want to mention to make sure everything “comes out” right.

I want …

Quite often, I’m asked what the difference is between a tease and denial phone sex session and a guided masturbation one.  In theory, they are related to each other; tease and denial focuses on the starts and stops of jerking off while guided masturbation gets a bit more in depth.  Like those circles you had to memorize for your SATs, one relates to the other but they aren’t the same thing by a long shot.  A tease and denial session always involves guided masturbation, but you don’t necessarily have to be denied to enjoy masturbating with instruction.

I love …

One of the reasons I love guided masturbation instruction so much is because it’s such a sensual moment. It’s me issuing masturbation instructions and you following every command. Every stroke, gasp, and moan brings us together.  I’m very specific during my guided masturbation sessions. For me, it goes beyond ‘stroke fast’ or ‘touch your balls’. I like to tell you where specifically I want you to stroke and what each stroke should look and feel like. You in turn, will describe to me every feeling, every delicious moment.  I love hearing the catch in your breath as you get excited. Or the slight moan that escapes your lips as I issue another instruction. Yes, I love the slow build. A quickie is good occasionally but

The best orgasms are the ones that are drawn out.

Yes, from the moment I ask you to stroke your cock, the game has begun. And yet, it’s not as much a game as it is a sensual tease. You see, I know everything that makes you tick. I know how to get you revved up in a second and how to bring you back down if needed. I know what strokes turn you on and what pushes you over the edge.

I love to manipulate that knowledge during a guided masturbation session. Of course you will thank me when you come. Because when you get there, you won’t just come. You will explode. Your body will shake with orgasmic tremors and you will wonder why you have never felt this way before. And you will be left shaking and spent and yet craving another session, wanting to hear my jerk off instructions just one more time.

And that is what guided masturbation is about.

For an erotic phone session with Mistress Ryan, call 800-601-6975
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Calls are $2.50 per minute,. with a 10 minute minimum
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Shallow women will tell you that they’re ugly or that they all look the same, but I don’t think anything could be farther from the truth.  Cocks are just as unique as their owners.  Or, in the case of some, as the body they’re attached to.  I . . . → Read More: Self Service: Guided Masturbation]]>

I find cocks to be utterly fascinating.

Shallow women will tell you that they’re ugly or that they all look the same, but I don’t think anything could be farther from the truth.  Cocks are just as unique as their owners.  Or, in the case of some, as the body they’re attached to.  I own quite a few cocks, and each of them is not just like me!

For guided masturbation purposes, it doesn’t even matter if your cock is small or large, straight or curved, thick or thin, black or white.  There are only two things that matter:  your ability to follow orders and the way your hand feels wrapped around your cock.

I don’t have a script or a road map that I follow when I lead a directed masturbation call.  You see, because every man and every cock are different, it stands to reason that every sensation feels different, too, yes?  So what I like to do is to explore with you the different sensations that we can create and see which ones get the reactions I desire.

Slow and sensual is my usual style, but I do have the occasional man who likes his jerk-off time to be a little rougher.  Handling the delicate bits more roughly than usual can be awfully fun for me.

Another important aspect in guided masturbation phone sex is timing.  The timing involved can either make or break your experience.  That’s why when I give you an order, I expect you to comply with it immediately.  You have to stroke your cock exactly as I tell you to with the exact speed I demand.  You must start stroking when I instruct you to, and you must stop when I say so.
It sounds so easy, but it can be rather difficult.  It all goes back to having trust in your phone sex Mistress.  You do trust that I will give you the best experience possible, so long as you obey me, don’t you?

Only my very good boys get to try out Mistress Ryan’s extremely enjoyable version of guided masturbation.  Call me and see if you can be one of the lucky ones.

For an erotic phone session with Mistress Ryan, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute,. with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
http://ratemycall.com

“You know … Lucy from the . . . → Read More: Phone Sex Advice]]>

The other day, someone mentioned to me that I remind them of Lucy.  It took me a few minutes before I finally had to ask .. “Lucy WHO?”  (As some of you know, I am somewhat red-headed and was hoping they didn’t mean Lucille Ball).  Thankfully, he didn’t.

“You know … Lucy from the Peanuts comic strip.  The one who tormented Charlie Brown and had the little stand that said ‘Psychiatric Help 5¢’ and used to hold the football.”

“OK.  I know who you are talking about, but what on earth makes you say that I remind you of her?  I’ve not done anything lately to shatter your self-image, nor to humiliate you for your shortcomings.”

At this point, he rolled his eyes at me and grinned. “No Ma’am, but you DO go out of your way to provide advice and guidance to those who are looking to expand upon their sexual knowledge.  So really … you’re like Lucy in Leather.” (his grin is adorable, with 2 little dimples in his cheeks … and really, that is what saved him at this point in the conversation)

“Lucy in leather, huh?  Does this mean Charlie Brown is my bitch? … and is Stewie the football headed baby our bastard love child?”

The conversation denigrated from there but now that I sit back and think about it … I suppose I am a bit like her.  A great majority of my day is spent advising and dispensing knowledge to those who are looking to find something new about their sexual fetishes or discover a new kink.  I enjoy talking to men who get on cam and show off how to masturbate, perhaps telling them about a new technique they haven’t tried before.  It excites me to speak with a pathetic cuckold who’s wife is just now out satisfying her urge for huge cock, while he sits at home washing her lingerie.  Of course, having him hand wash her pretty panties while my strapon is buried inside his hole just makes it so much more arousing for me.

So I guess I am a bit like Lucy in Leather.  I’m willing to share my knowledge, dispense my advice and every once in a while … watch you fall flat on your ass when I move the football.

For an erotic phone session with Miss Ryan, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute,. with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
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